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Placating Picky Eaters: Ensuring all your guests are happy

November 1, 2018 0 Comments

Q: We entertain a great deal, and I usually don’t now if our guests are vegetarians or have food allergies-until they’re sitting at my dining room table and not touching the main course.  Should I be asking everyone ahead of time about dietary restrictions?

A: If you’re having a few people over for a dinner party or a weekend stay, it’s a good idea to check, especially if you’re planning to serve a dish some people can’t handle.  You could say, “We’re thinking about having shellfish, and I wondering if you’re able to eat shrimp or clams.”  Another approach: “I haven’t bought groceries yet for the weekend-any preferences?”  When you’re planning a larger party, you needn’t ask each guest about food restrictions, but to be on the safe side, make sure you include some “neutral” dishes such as a vegetable platter, pasta with meatless sauce, fresh fruit for dessert.  That way, everybody will find something he or she enjoys.

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November 2, 2018