Continue Reading Honesty Is The Best Policy: Telling a friend the truth Q: A friend who was laid off a few months ago just heard about a job in my office and wants me to…
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Continue Reading The Second Time Around: Should your parents foot the bill? Q: Our son’s fiance is planning a large reception for their wedding. It’s her first marriage and his second. We paid for his…
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Continue Reading Guest Manners: What to do with bedsheets Q: I’m staying with a cousin for a week, and I would like to be a hassle-free houseguest. I know I should make…
Continue Reading A Minor Mooch?: When others pay for your child Q: When my daughter goes out to dinner or the movies with a friend’s family, I always give her money ahead of time…
Continue Reading Considerate Coworkers: How to thank office mates for group gifts Q: Several of my coworkers pooled their money and bought a beautiful rocker for my baby shower. Should I write to each of…